What We Do

Feeling Frazzled? Join us for an online Frazzled Cafe meeting.

We know how important it is to stay connected in these unprecedented and uncertain times. Frazzled Cafe meetings are a supportive online community where you can come and talk in a safe, non-judgemental space about what’s really going on for you.

“I find it remarkable that this support is on offer and for free?! It's a unique, friendly, safe place, allowing me to feel less alone with my anxieties by gaining support from others experiencing similar feelings. I can't thank you enough and also M&S for hosting.”

“Really useful outlet during a period of anxiety. Great to meet and help others on their journey whilst finding a way through my own in a helpful setting.”

Feedback from our Attendees

“It was a bad time for me. I was pretty down. I can’t thank you enough Ruby Wax. Although I have not attended for a while as have returned to work after retiring as a nurse. I am in a much better place. The meetings were a BIG help, and I love to know it’s there. Thanks a million.”

Frazzled Cafe is a registered charity that operates with the purpose of providing a safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment where people who are feeling frazzled and overwhelmed by the stresses of modern life can meet on a regular basis to talk and share their personal stories.


To help ensure that our meetings run smoothly and in line with the values of Frazzled Cafe we ask that all participants agree to follow these guidelines:

  • To act with integrity. Please respect one another’s confidentiality and anonymity. Please do not name anyone or discuss anything you may hear in a meeting with others who have not attended.
  • To let everyone have a voice. Please respect one another by giving everybody the chance to contribute without interruption and by not dominating or disrupting the conversation. The facilitator may show a white card after 3 minutes to signal the end of a speaker’s turn.
  • To listen without offering solutions. Please focus your contribution on personal experiences and not political/thematic concepts. When speaking please focus on what resonates with you personally, not on providing answers or solutions to others.
  • To be kind to ourselves and each other. This is NOT group therapy and no-one should feel under pressure to say anything. We do hope that in hearing others’ experiences you will feel encouraged to share your own. Whether you speak or not, please treat each other in a supportive and considerate way.
  • To welcome people from all backgrounds and points of view. We have no religious, political or commercial affiliations and ask that participants refrain from promoting any that they might have.
  • To be present. To benefit fully from the session and stay present in the room, please try to avoid distractions from phones or other devices.

Please bear in mind that these meetings are not therapy sessions. If you are currently suffering from serious mental illness it may not be appropriate to attend (see our FAQs for more info). If you are in need of further support please visit our “Need Help Now?” page which offers some contacts that may be useful alternatives.