The inspiration for Frazzled came from founder and patron Ruby Wax’s experiences during her best-selling book and theatre tours. Ruby met thousands of people looking to connect and share their stories, and when she asked her audience members if they wanted a chance to talk about what was going on for them, they always did.
Ruby sensed the need for a place where people could come together and connect with others in a safe, supportive space. A place where people could talk about the overwhelming stresses of modern life, free from judgement. This is what motivated her to create Frazzled in 2017, and today, this free service is available to anyone 365 days a year.
Community has always been an important release, but there are less spaces in today’s world to share the burden of living. Even back in the Savannah after a hard day’s hunt everyone sat around the fire, knowing they had each other’s backs. While we can’t offer a fire, we can offer a space to feel safe to let it out.
Frazzled is a community based on the power of emotional openness and vulnerability. A space where anyone can come and be listened to, or simply listen, without judgment or solutions. The simple act of opening up has the power to help not just the person sharing, but those they share with. This is a place for them to simply exhale and feel less alone in their feelings.
Since 2017, we’ve provided a space where people feel heard and held, and we’ve challenged what connection looks like in a modern world that demands so much of us emotionally. We think of Frazzled as a human safety net, where we can catch people before they fall.